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Family Counselling Can Help Save a Marriage

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10:15 AM

Relationships are hard. It might be easier for us to cultivate friendships; however, it is a completely different story when you have to cultivate a relationship with this one person for the rest of your life.

The idea of spending your entire life with one person is scary enough. Most people get married for stability; others for love. However, it is easier said than done. You have to work hard on your marriage if you want it to last. It is most certainly difficult, but it is not impossible.

Giving up is easy. You can easily throw your marriage away for the most frivolous things; however, you are going to regret it for the rest of your life. Hasty decisions tend to become a source of life-long regret. Therefore, it is important to work things out calmly without making any rash decisions.

However, there are times when nothing you do works. No matter what you say or do or work towards, the relationship seems too broken to mend.

What to do then? Give up?


This is the part that calls for professional help. There is no harm in consulting a professional counsellor with your marriage problems. Before you decide to give up, make sure you have done everything you can to work on your relationship. Consulting a marriage counsellor is one of them. You might keep it reserved as a last resort, which is fine; just approach someone and get help.

Here is how a family counsellor can help you deal with your relationship baggage:

1.     Impartial Advice

Most problems arise when the couple starts blaming each other for the damage done. When you consult a marriage counsellor, it gets easier for both parties to put forth their respective points without the fear of being blamed unnecessarily. A family counsellor is impartial. You can rest your case with them, and they will provide a possible way out for both parties without any biases.

2.     A Safe Space

More often than not, when you are experiencing marital problems, you are afraid of sharing your turmoil with those who are close to you for fear of being judged. You feel like no one can understand what you are going through.

Sometimes, you are afraid of being honest even to your partner. You fear what it might o to your marriage. A family counsellor is someone who provides a safe space for both parties to share and be honest with each other. After all, openness and honesty are the two pillars of marriage. There is no judgment in that space. You can pour your heart out and make way for a better future.

3.     An Opportunity to Unburden

If you are angry or frustrated with your partner, you have an opportunity to unburden. Let those ugly feelings out. If your partner has been unfaithful to you, this is the place where you can confront them. Don’t let the bile and resentment create an inn in your heart. Allow yourself to let go of those feelings, and it is a golden opportunity to do so.